Keeping Your Cool
When the shit hits the fan, how do you handle the situation?
In my brief time here on this earth, I have learned that most people panic. They lose control of their minds and bodies. They make poor decisions based on limited logic and high emotion. The end result is usually disastrous.
Great leaders and heroes through history are generally known to be calm, cool and collected under pressure. Their ability to size up a situation, regardless of its circumstances, and then make a logical decision is very powerful and practical.
Sometimes these calm decisions won’t always be right, but in most cases they are far better than panicking and making the situation worse.
Hostile Situations
If you are stranded in water, lost in the woods, faced with a predator or any other hostile opponent; the best thing you can do is remain calm and look for the next best move to make.
Flailing in the water, desperately trying to stay afloat, will drain your energy. If you panic in the woods and run in the wrong direction, you could become further lost. Predators have evolved to target the weak, they can smell fear and will always pursue the insecure, isolated or injured.
The first step when faced with a stressful situation is to remove your emotions and irrational fear. If the odds seem insurmountable, which they rarely are, then you must logically calculate your best move for survival.
Calmly, yet without hesitation, observe then analyze the situation. Next, gather key information that will allow you to most effectively react and take control.
Fight or Flight
When we let our emotions run rampant, our hearts and nerves go wild. Our adrenalin starts to rush. Our bodies almost become uncontrollable. This is our instinctual fight or flight defense mechanism kicking in.
Adrenalin allows us to perform at super human levels. Our pain threshold sky rockets, we are at our strongest, and our normal risk aversion is temporarily gone. This response can be a great tool to escape stressful situations.
However, overtime, this response can be very unhealthy. An adrenalin response is followed by spike of cortisol in our blood. This hormone is damaging; it can lower your immune system, damage the circulatory system and, among other things, cause ulcers.
After calmly assessing the initial situation, we can control our reaction. If we see a logical plan and the steps we must take to complete it; our flight or fight instinct will remain at bay. The key is recognizing your emotions, then getting a grip on them.
Taking a deep breath and quieting the mind will help you stay calm and centered.
Follow Through
Do you know anyone that remains graceful under pressure? How do they handle stressful situations? Most people are not born this way. Fortunately this trait can be acquired through effort.
The ability to remain cool is generally a result of confidence. Confidence is not achieved until experience has been earned through trail, error and conquered failure.
Repeating the process of calmly gathering information, analyzing it, then making the most appropriate maneuver can be repeated until the hostile situation has been handled.
With enough practice, this skill will become second nature. You can, and will, become the person people will look to in a time of stress.
Are you the pack leader?
I’ve noticed, in times of stress, people will instinctively look to the Alpha of the group to see his response. If people turn to you for advice or help, take it as a compliment rather than a nuisance.
Being the Alpha, or the leader, is a position of power and influence. These types of people get the job done and subsequently get what they want. Losing your cool is a sure fire way to relinquish your power.
Every situation has an absolute best move to make. It is your duty to find it and do it! It could be the difference between success or failure, life or death.
Animals can’t smell fear. They can interpret body language as a sign of strength or weakness which some often confuse this with “smelling fear”. Your initial reaction to a situation is often the best reaction to ay circumstance. It is true that you must stay calm and focus your emotion, but by over-analyzing we often make an incorrect decision and in some situations it can be too late once you have decided the appropriate reaction.
Actually, check this out… http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/2008/dec/03/fear-smell-pheromone
Apparently, fear does trigger a pheromone release.
I agree with the over-analysis observation. But, allowing emotions to cloud judgment and decision making is never good.
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